When is it OK to swear in public?

When is it OK to swear in public?

Recently, Senator Kirsten Gillibrand swore during a speech at the Personal Democracy Forum at New York University.  She said, “If we’re not helping people, we should go the f**k home.”  And later on, talking about President Trump, she added, “Has he kept his promises?  F**k no.” There was a fair amount of scolding on line […]

Tough career love for speakers

Tough career love for speakers

I often get asked by already-pro speakers, and near-pro speakers, how to take their speaking game higher.  They ask me questions like: How do I kick-start my career?  What will be that easy path to success?  What are the secrets to cracking the nut of getting all the highly-paid speeches you can handle?  Ah, if […]

Why Speakers Need to Worry About Sleep

Why Speakers Need to Worry About Sleep

Back in the day when I taught public speaking at Princeton, one of the bits of bad news the students found most unfair was the attractiveness bias.  Basically, psychologists have found over and over again that more attractive people have an unfair advantage when it comes to attracting partners, getting hired, getting paid, being perceived […]

What’s Missing From Your Virtual Communications and How to Fix Them – 2

What’s Missing From Your Virtual Communications and How to Fix Them – 2

This post is second of two on virtual communications. The virtual world offers us two great conveniences; indeed, you can make a reasonable claim that the virtual world depends for its success on these twin pillars:  freedom from friction, and freedom from simultaneity. But those freedoms create new problems.  How can you solve the problems […]

What’s Missing from Your Virtual Communications and How to Fix Them – 1

What’s Missing from Your Virtual Communications and How to Fix Them – 1

The virtual world offers us two great conveniences.  Indeed, you can make a reasonable claim that the virtual world depends for its success on these twin pillars:  freedom from friction, and freedom from simultaneity. What does that mean?  Before email, we had to write or type out letters, memos, reports, white papers – the entire […]

Speakers and Their Hair — How Should You Style Yourself?

Speakers and Their Hair — How Should You Style Yourself?

After all those principles, here’s a look at an arguably lighter issue:  speaker hairstyles. Here’s the problem for the modern keynote speaker.  You’re most likely going to be beamed onto a giant IMAG screen, often two of them, on either side of you standing there on the stage.  You may actually be overwhelmed visually by […]

Principles of Public Speaking – the Final Seven

Principles of Public Speaking – the Final Seven

With this blog post, I’m concluding a series of public speaking principles that are a summation of what I’ve learned about this fiendishly difficult art and science over three decades of practice, coaching, learning from others, and research, especially neuroscience.  The final seven concern general issues of delivery and the speaker. 71.Find ways to protect […]